Determining what you want in a house is easier said than done. It is useful to think about what you liked and disliked in houses you have seen.

What was it about these houses that attracted you?

Also consider what you don´t like about your current home. Your aim in the analysis stage is to filter your inventory and eliminate houses that do not fit your criteria. Keep in mind that you will probably have to make many compromises; The perfect house probably does not exist. You can only make an informed decision after evaluating the available housing stock and considering what you can afford. Only then will you be in a position to decide what you would be willing to compromise on.

When remorse sets in -- as it usually does -- remind yourself what you´re feeling is normal and the uncomfortable feelings will pass. Try not to attach more significance to these feelings than is warranted. Just because you´re feeling regretful about your decision to buy doesn´t mean that you shouldn´t go through with the purchase. Doing your homework will help you feel more confident about your decision:

Learn what home prices are in the area.
Find out about different kinds of mortgages.
Study a sample purchase agreement before you buy.
Have the house you're buying thoroughly inspected to make sure you aren't buying unwanted problems.
You may think you don´t want to spend more in monthly expenses on a house than you pay in rent. But that may be unrealistic and may ignore other issues. Although it is not a good idea to stretch yourself too thin financially, you should take the tax advantages of homeownership into account when deciding your price range. Property taxes and interest on a residence are deductible in most cases making your price range probably 25 to 33 percent higher than you might think.

However, budget your finances and make sure you aren´t getting in over your head when you decide how much you can spend each month. The last thing you want is to not be able to make ends meet.

Despite all your preparation, buying a home will probably still be stressful. One way to ease that stress is to find good professionals who can assist you.